51-Year-Old Pastor Wants An Ibadan Customary Court To Dissolve His 11- Year-Old Marriage Alleging That His Wife Is Destroying His Ministry

51-Year-Old Pastor Wants An Ibadan Customary Court To Dissolve His 11- Year-Old Marriage Alleging That His Wife Is Destroying His Ministry

Rotimi Michael, a 51-year-old Pastor has told an Oke-Ogbere Customary
Court in Ibadan to dissolve his 11- year-old marriage to his wife,
Dolapo, alleging that she is destroying his ministry as a cleric.  

Pastor Michael told the court that his wife had made nonsense of his
calling as a minister of God and might end his ministry if he did not
end the marriage with her.  

“To say the least my lord, I have for too long tolerated Dolapo’s
arrogance, disrespect, stubbornness and stone-heartedness to me,
probably due to my silence. She doesn’t even take instructions from me;
instead, Dolapo consults other pastors around. Rather than supporting my
ministry, she causes pandemonium that leads to crises in the church. In
fact, Dolapo keeps nagging and I am completely fed-up with her, ‘’
Rotimi said.  

The respondent (Dolapo) who consented to the suit could not deny the
allegations levelled against her but explained the reasons for her
action. According to the 48 -year-old Prophetess, God had ministered to
me that I must marry Pastor Rotimi.  

“Rotimi no longer wants to see me because he now knows that my
anointing is greater than his. Anytime I have a revelation for our
congregation in the church, Rotimi, as the church overseer will not want
God’s revelation to be shared because he feels that I might be greater
than him. He prefers to tell lies to the congregation and his attitude
is against my calling.

For two years now, Rotimi has been starving me of sex. This is due to
the fact that he has another wife in Lagos State. Besides, Rotimi is
making desperate moves to terminate my life in another revelation by our
son.  “He is currently blackmailing me around that I am a fake
prophetess. Rotimi lacks any milk of human kindness because he no longer
fends for the children and me. The land on which his church is built is
jointly owned by both of us,’’ Dolapo said.  

Some senior pastors of the church prayed the court to give them a
grace of four weeks to intervene for amicable settlement. The court’s
President, Alhaji Suleiman Adeniyi, however, said that he was adjourning
the case for the last time because he had done it on several occasions
without any remedy.  Adeniyi adjourned the case till March 20 for
judgment.