I’m Dating This Guy In Abuja, Leaving My Baby Papa Who Is Also My Boyfriend But In Lagos, What Should I Do?
I’ve been in a relationship with this particular guy for 7 years now…,we started dating right from university school days, so In 200l I had a son for him while we were still dating, months after birth we started having issues.
We were both filled with hatred, the love just disconnected in 400level and I broke up with him, yet he came back apologizing that we should come back of which based on how much i loved him, we both came back not knowing the guy I have been with for so many years, i never knew he had issues in school and he didn’t pay his fees and he hid it from me all this while, then I started recollecting most times I always ask him about his payment and exams as well as his result and he always answers me somehow.
He Failed so many exams in 200l and didn’t tell me, not knowing he has been forging results for me. I angrily accused him and all he said was he would clear everything and he’s gonna fix i up, I kept calm and still yet nothing. I stopped asking him because I felt his act of unseriousness.
I later got cleared from school and left him behind and went for my service though i quitted the relationship and met another guy told him about my son and we started dating after service, while I got my first job in Abuja and we dated for a year and broke up realizing he was just a sweet mouth guy that’s just caring but not ready for anything and after few months my baby papa came up and boom our relationship was back he was already doing a part time then, I already resigned from my first job of which i had to travel back to lagos because of my son.
However, September last year I got another job in Abuja had to travel back and met a particular guy who was a cousin to my ex boss we were so close when he heard I was back in Abuja we met and talked and from there he started growing feelings on me and boom we started dating but never told him I had a son because I was in love already and i don’t want him to runaway
I never believed he knew about it already and never accused me of it, rather he was just waiting for me to talk but I didn’t so he had to sit me down in other to confirm be it true or not and I told him yes and he told me because of the love he has for me he wouldn’t get angry, but still he won’t leave me for nobody and my baby papa is still in Lagos waiting patiently for me to come back to him with our son and he never knew i was already dating another guy.
I have been dating the both of them, playing with their head and brain, but I am so loving the Abuja guy, please guys what should i do?
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