I’ve Tried All I Could Just For Ladies To Love And Appreciate Me But, All I Get Is A Constant Rejection, Guys Please Help

I’ve Tried All I Could Just For Ladies To Love And Appreciate Me But, All I Get Is A Constant Rejection, Guys Please Help

Good Morning Naijafinix Lovers:-

I sincerely need advice from mature minds here, i am a guy and I will be turning 29 this year. I just would like to know if am going through this alone or every other person is also experiencing this too…

Every girl/lady I meet end up rejecting me or even leaving me, the ones that don’t reject me friend zone me which is like a semi rejection. I don’t know if I am cursed but I thought it has something to do with me so I worked on my self. I reshaped my mindset and every other thing one can think about, but i still  get rejection served hot to me like a cup of hot tea.

I got frustrated I even asked a 19year old lady out and it was the same story, Last year I met someone I really like and wanted to have a serious relationship with, I did all I could to get her attention and be friends with her, I even rehearsed with my mirror before I called her and it seems like everything was going well then suddenly she just said I should stop talking to her… just like that oooooh!!!

I thought it was a joke until she blocked me from reaching out to her via calling nor even texting and that of social media apart from whatsapp… after 3 month on Cross over night I went to her church hoping to see her there, I eventually saw her and she avoided me and then few minutes later again she blocked me on whatapp…

I was very sad on the 1st of January because if this action, my self esteem has dropped. Anytime I meet a new chick now I just assume it’s going to be the same sad ending song I’m bothered anymore and guess what I am good looking so awful each time this happens and it’s not like am ugly or lazy or even handicap or castrated or something…

Please Naijafinix Lovers, I need your diferent suggestions and advices on this issue most especially, answers to the following questions below:-

1.  With the little information I posted here do you think I have a problem?

2. How can I attract that girl I really desire to be with because I don’t even know anymore?

3. How do I build my confidence when it comes to dating /relationships?

PS; I know some of you will say I should check myself and my attitude, but believe me when I said I’ve worked on myself, like I have worked on every aspect of my life including my looks and how I dress and if u wanna see for yourself I can share my handle… No insults please…

Thank you….