Lady Ask For Your Opinions On How She Could Get Her Man And Not Having Sex With Him Till Marriage
Good Morning Naijafinix Lovers:-
Okay so i met this guy recently, We get along quite well but the problem is intimacy, I explained to him that i wouldn’t like to get intimate with any man until marriage.
I told him about how my last experience (which was actually my first) didn’t go well. My last relationship was filled with Promises and sweet talks, my defenses was broken and the fact that I was naive made it alot easier to be fooled… at the end of the day i realized that those things were just said and done just for the sake of sexual intimacy and nothing more. About this new guy now, he goes on about on how much he loves me and says although he might not be expressive enough in showing it but he really loves me.
He said he wishes to start a family with me and he’s waiting for me to be ready so we’ll give birth to cute kids together (he says that both jokingly and seriously).. Recently, i stayed a day over at his place, he tried getting intimate, i resisted.. and then he said with a smile “okay no problem, it’s not all about sex tho” we were cool, we cuddled and slept off and then i left the next day.. when i got home, i thanked him over the phone, for having me at his place (that was the first time i spent the night).
His reply was like,
“it’s your house too dear”..(i told him not to tease me and he said he wasn’t teasing me and that he really meant it, when i said i doubt if he truly likes me that much, he said “okay”)…
Ever since then, he’s been acting a bit weird and strange, he ignored my call twice, replies my message a bit differently. i feel really bad, i love this guy so much, though i don’t make it look obvious but i really wish things could work out between us and eventually lead to marriage.
I know he’s really a nice guy, he has this very good personality that draws me to him and he’s not Lazy, but right now I’m so worried and scared. What if i give in and things don’t go well? What if he’s just being nice for the sex and all? because whenever I’m about to leave after a visit, he doesn’t hug or kiss me outside to say goodbye, he says he’s not into PDA (public display of affection).. i can’t even differentiate him anymore and i really can’t stand the heartaches…
Please Guys, I need your help in this…
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