‘Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Priority If You’re Not Financially Independent’ – Alibaba

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‘Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Priority If You’re Not Financially Independent’ – Alibaba

Nigerian comedian, Ali Baba in his advice to ladies today said, ‘if as a lady, you are not financially dependent, marriage should not be your priority’.

He went on to say, ‘that era of being financially dependent on a man
expired many years ago. Sadly, very few women started late to realise
that they also had the equal personal requirements to make themselves
financially independent’.

Many of the men who also believed that women should not be
financially independent were also everywhere. And with time, many of
those men, where in places of authority and economic positions of
influence. Such men also started to see that many women were a threat to
their masculinity. And did everything to block them.

Like a woman can not bail anyone arrested. Women can not rent
properties. They failed to accept that women were capable of pulling
their weight when shouldered with responsibilities, BUT DID BETTER THAN
THE MEN, who went head to head with them. And still play their roles as
women.

In school, you will remember, if you want to be honest, there were
ladies who were constantly in 1st to 10th positions. And there were
heavy men, who were unashamedly in the 30th to 32nd positions. That was
the start. It became more glaring that women can be equally smart and
even smarter. Many of these men, were in any case being taught by women,
as teachers, lecturers and professors.

So, gradually, the thought of a woman being DEPENDENT ON any man
started fading. Especially when the men started having them as bosses,
and learning under their feet. Humbling. However, it needs to be further
emphasised in these day and age, that the days of a woman being
DEPENDENT are gone. Or nearly gone.

So, it’s clear, that financial instability of women is the major
reason many wpmen don’t get treated like they should. It turns
relationships to cash and carry or business transactions. It also then
makes many men believe, that financial independence will take away their
power. Only WEAK MEN think like that. And women who think they must go
into a relationship because its their only way to financial stability
are the ones who empower them.

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