My Boyfriend Is A Super Giver And My Mum Is Taking Advantage Of That, What Should I Do, Please Help
Good Morning Naijafinix Lovers:-
Please I need advise on how to handle my mum asking so much from my boyfriend…
I’ve been trying to hold this for a while now but its becoming a burden… I’ve known this guy as a friend for close to a years, before we started dating and we have dated for more than 3 years now and he became so close to my family that some persons(most especially my mother) mistook him for my brother.
My boyfriend is good to a fault, I mean he is super good that I think some persons take advantage of that, he is a giver, like he doesn’t mind giving his last penny and stay hungry, most especially when it comes to me and now, he has extended it to my family (don’t get me wrong, I’m super excited and feel blessed to have him, even my family feels same)…
He likes hanging out and going to new places wit me and each time we go out, my mum and sisters make it look compulsory he buys something for them which is not a problem to me, but sometimes he may not have enough money but wants to squeeze out little to take me out then my mum will call, telling him to buy something for her and he can’t say no (I have never said no to him buying anything for anyone or giving anyone but most times I know how much he has and wish I can tell him to say no).
My mum is making it look as if he must give to her when he gives to me, to the extent that even siblings and some of my cousin puts some unnecessary responsibility on him as if we are married, Like my mum calls him and say ‘I want to eat xoxo today’ the next thing is he is looking for is to give her even if he doesn’t have much on him, something she does not do to any other person because she hates been turned down whenever she asks…
I feel my boyfriend does not feel free coming to my house anymore most especially when he doesn’t have enough on him, If he buys something for me and bring it to my house, especially something edible he buys extra for my mum and sisters if not they will be on his neck, sometimes I pity him but I can’t tell him to stop or tell my mum to stop…
Please correct me if I’m wrong also… Please Mr Finix post this, I’ll be in the comment section.
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