I discovered this night i married a monster. I should have seen this coming. I deceived myself thinking he would be better, but my biggest mistake was made in January this year, when i got married to this monster. Where do i start from? Is it the cheating? The smoking? The lies? Or the fact that his family always backs up his bullshit? Igbo people are officially the worst set of people i know.
I am here asking myself what i have done to myself. My mother warned me, she just wasn’t comfortable with it even if she had no reason or fault to point out. A mother’s intuition is never wrong. The beast i married constantly stresses me and makes me uncomfortable. He stresses me to the point i had a miscarriage early march. I have been through hell all in the name of keeping peace in my home.
This man never supported me physically, emotionally or financially during my pregnancy. He just doesn’t care if i die. The only time he shows care is when he wants sex, sex that he cant even satisfy me. Selfish bastard. If i start my story when will i stop? Now this evening he became rough with me because i complained about his behavior. He called me stupid and pushed me hard that my nails broke. That moment was a turning point for me. This man will soon start beating me and unlike a lot of women i wont wait till he starts. Manhandling me is domestic abuse already. I will leave. I will file for a divorce. I won’t die because of marriage. I wont join the statistics of battered women.
I will move out tomorrow and re-strategize. Marriage is not a do or die. We will all be fine last last. If at 3 months i am being treated badly, then what will forever be. People will talk yes, but at least i will be okay. It will be hard yes but God will help me. I will pray for God to direct me after i leave this monster… Your advice will be granted if it’s okay by me, i have already made up my mind
That man is useless leaving him is useful for your health, children…dont think about what people will say if you leave your marriage, their negative sayings is trash. Most women are dead due to abusive relationships dont be one of them. THAT IRRESPONSIBLE MAN DONT DESERVE YOU.