Queen Ure who was formerly married to singer Soul E has just revealed that her second marriage is over.
Reacting to the news of the man who ended his life because his wife left, she said;
“He
committed suicide because his wife left him! I wish he had tried to
look at the situation a bit differently. I don’t know what you’re going
through right now but truly there’s always something good in every ugly
situation.
Most of you saw my wedding photos barely a year ago, I
was happy, I thought that finally God had answered my prayers, a
widowed pastor with 4 very young lovely kids, so Wifey and Mummy all at
once.
I packed all my load and relocated to Gwagwalada. We didn’t
date, I took the chance based on recommendation as I was 45 going to
46.
’The guy showed me nwii as in, if not that my father drummed
it in my ear that I’m a Queen, I would have thought I was an outcast,
every month he would tell me to pack my things and go that I’m not
submissive, that a good wife will submit all her money and her body. I
was submitting the body o but he wanted the thing everyday.
I was
not submitting the money but I was willingly and generously looking
after everyone as he didn’t have any source of income. (The Church was
new). You’re wondering why I would marry a man with 4 children that
doesn’t have shishi?
The good values we were brought up with
hasn’t left us, some of us still believe in love and small beginnings, I
wasn’t desperate not at all. Anyway onye awusa chirim onu n’ala and
finally “broke the marriage” when I insisted I wouldn’t make him a
director of my company nor a signatory to the account yet.
He may
not be such a terrible man just a man with a different view of marriage
from mine. This was my 2nd marriage. I will now come and kill myself?
‘To
say that I’m not heart broken I’ll be lying but to think that is the
end of the world mbanu, for what? Instead of suicide, I’ll kukuma do
wedding number 3. I turned 47 last August …no child, no husband, doesn’t
sound good but I’m alive and healthy, that’s a testimony.
For the records I never cheated on him, never contemplated it.”
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